January 29, 2021

Success Stories: Super Friday 29 Jan 2021

Translated by Soo Hui 

From MY KL Soo Hui (Ash Sam) to Everyone:  08:51 PM

Hi everyone, I’m Jilnele, from Penang, a housewife and a mother of two.

I got to know about Nuskin through a set of products that have improved my skin problem. Since young I’m someone who have no self-confidence and very low self-esteem, and because of my skin problem, I don’t dare to look into others eyes and talk, and I am afraid of how others will think and look at me.

In the beginning I was only looking for health, I wasn’t confident and don’t dare to think that I can make it here as well. I kept looking for many reasons: I’m not highly educated, I have no friends, I don’t know English, I don’t have time to take care of my children and rejected Erik.

He’s in KL, and I’m from Penang, I think it’s impossible to make it happen, however he never listens in to whatever my reasons are, he just thinks that I deserve a better life. And I’m grateful to him for believing in me and never abandoned me at all. Otherwise, there won’t be me today. He kept wanting me to come back to system and learn, allowing me to see that there’s a university here. STY is already a real proven system that create miracles, products are good, company is good, and with all the leader’s success secret, it’s amazing! As long as I’m willing to learn, everyone also can succeed in ST system!

As someone so ordinary like me, also have an opportunity to succeed here, having passive and exponential income, it’s an unlimited stream of income, here we are not only settling for our 3 meals, but is to settle for our 3 generations.

When my mom got stroke that time it makes me realised that I need to change, I’m a housewife, I cannot continue to be like this anymore, when my family needs me, are we well prepared, to be the one who are able to stood up for them?

In 2018, when I started, Erik told me to complete BR, fight for 10K, I don’t know what is 10K, I thought to do Nu Skin equals to must complete 10K, I didn’t think much, no matter what problems I faced, I immediately call him and look for him. He always says that “throw away your brain, and use his brain instead!” Because I don’t know anything so I just follow and do, it’s definitely correct! Just use his brain to do it, whatever he said I just do it. The second month I start to earn my 5-figure income, continuously 10K for few months, I completed my first Tokyo Trip, I just blur blur do it only. I only know the great product can help more people, and. I thought my first trip I won’t was because of me being lucky.

In 2019, I continuously do and completed my second Moscow trip. In 2020, MCO 1.0 have affected me, a lot of negativity, and I start to hide myself, I wasn’t being honest with upline, and hide a lot from him. The more I accumulated it is even affecting my confidence more. After that I kept meeting those people who aren’t ready and I was stuck. For the few months the more I do the harder things became. I think why is that so? That’s because I allow other people and the wrong ppl to influence myself.

That’s because I didn’t do well on my own, I focus on the wrong place and didn’t settle myself well. Erik told me to read The Magic and learn to be grateful, I was very angry! With my current situation now, how do I be grateful? What do you actually want me to do? After that I felt very bad as he is here to help me, why should I be angry with him? And I just call him to apologise and said sorry, he told me to pick up my Magic Rock and read The Magic, and while practising Magic, i slowly learn to be positive and practice gratitude.

I thank to all my up line and never give up on me. I realised that I actually just “joined” Nuskin, and just being in NuSkin for these two years, I haven’t really start doing Nuskin seriously, it’s because I haven’t made a firm decision to be real successful yet, and these two years I just merely doing it for the sake of doing. Every month I’ll tell Erik to set me the smallest goal, smallest goal is enough for every month to pass through it just nice, it’s good enough already.

Mama Dawn mentioned in Super Friday grouping, she said that your goal is set by your upline or yourself? I suddenly woken up by that and think, Oh Yes! It’s my own life, I’m the one living my own life, why should I succeed slow when I can be fast? I can’t accept being slow, and last time I felt EBD is very far, I don’t dare to think at all.

After the meeting I immediately call Erik for alignment and he told me that, if you want to succeed faster, you must up pun title, thank you Erik for explaining to me how to fight EBD. He told me to go back to zero, go one more round, start from zero, fight 10K, and become EBP again, after complete EBP, fight EBP again for 4x more times, then u can achieve EBD.

Wow, it’s just like that! we just need to do the same thing repeatedly, and keep repeating to fight EBP, complete EBP and fight for EBP for 4 times continuously and keep learning and keep mastering it until we achieve our goal.  But first we must take action, how come I don’t know about this previously? It’s because hope and fear can’t co-exist, I am wasting my time thinking I can’t make it, why not I focus on what happen if I make it? It’s not about I can or I can’t, it’s about whether I want to do it or not!

During this period, I decided to start afresh, but I still don’t dare to believe in myself 100% that I can succeed in Nuskin, and enjoy the lifestyle our ST leaders have. Recently I have been searching for which YouTube that can incite my belief, how to make myself believe more in myself that I can succeed in Nuskin. Thanks to ST 8 Daily Things, I learn from there that everyday must have alignment with up line, Erik let me know that I don’t need to look for ways and things to incite my belief.

However, what I need to do is to throw away my doubt, and naturally I will have 100% belief and just do it! I learnt that what he said is so true, if I found 100 videos to incite myself but I still have doubt within me, it doesn’t make any difference. Because I’m still looking left and right, those who are more capable than me also haven’t achieve it, my belief definitely being affected, how to have belief, with no belief how can I take actions.

My heart wanted it, yes I want it but my legs abs hands are not moving, how? Actually, I just need to settle myself, really throw away my doubts and the belief will come naturally. I must have abundance thinking, and practice law of attraction, attract what you want, when we start being positive, the good things will come naturally.

As long as we are willing to change, everyone also can make it. aA team in MCO1.0 already created many success stories, prove that believe and people that knows how to be grateful can all made it!

I’m thankful that I have the opportunity to learn from DCC, I’m someone who don’t dare to talk, and fearful of everything, scared of this and that, and fearful to offend people.

Sam has asked me something very classical, he asked “Jilnele, if you talk more, can help you to succeed faster, do you want it?”

I want! So I must change to talk more and don’t care about what others think and how they look at me. I don’t need to be scared! Just breakthrough what I used to not dare to do, it can help me to succeed faster, why not make the change?

Annie also asked me if I don’t make a change, just cry and scared of little little things, and don’t dare to face anything, don’t mind and care what others said, isn’t your kids and family members more important? Don’t be defeated by destiny, we must change our destiny, and my answer is yes, my family are important, and I must make a change!

I come to NuSkin is not to watch movie (see others success), I’m here to succeed!

She told me to let go off all the wrong people, people who really want it will naturally catch up, firstly we just make sure we do well on our own part, do 10K, and bring in the right people, don’t always let others pull you down, let go of the past, just let go of it.

In our life, we only have one past, one present, but we have unlimited future, we must do NuSkin happily, when I realised this.

As an analogy, when we are young, we have what we like to play in hand, we will happily share with friends and family, influence more people to play with us, when we are starting it excitedly, isn’t it more children will play with us? If I also doubt that this might not be fun, and pull a long face, guess will there be anyone who wants to play with us?

We must take well care of our own garden, only then we can influence more butterflies and bees to come. When I understand this, I no longer care what others said and how they look at me. I only need to make sure I done my part well, and start to relearn again, grateful for every happening, the bad happenings is to e us grow faster, actually doing Nuskin is such a happy thing to do, continuously help people who need to be more healthy and have a quality life!

When we decided to succeed no matter what, there is no, not any excuses. No matter what we must make it happen, focus on our goal, take action pro-actively, as long as we are willing to change our attitude, everyone can succeed in Nuskin. System has everything well prepared, what’s lacking is the fire decision of ours to be successful!

I like one of COE Ichiro saying, there’s a spirit called “Jilnele”!

Defeat yourself meanings u have defeated all those who have looked down on you, the principle of never ever give up is one of the criteria to WIN, SURE WIN!

Don’t ask ourselves whether I can or not, tell ourselves that whether we want it or not! Now that I have completed my 3rd month of Moscow trip, next goal is to bring 5 business partners to Moscow together and complete my EBD together with my business partners!

Thank you everyone, I’m Jilnele from Penang!

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