me getting a headache

juggling with work... moving house (yes, we, joelis and i have moved to our own place).. and the coming big event... errmmm... big ke? well, big enough for me to decide on the big step! anyway, i read this a moment ago.. and kinda agree to it..

It’s The Marriage, Not The Wedding

Wedding planning is often one of the most stressful times for both the bride and groom. Suddenly, things that seemed so rosy and beautiful during the courtship days can be the total opposite when both parties find themselves disagreeing on the wedding plans. Quarrels and arguments are very common during this time as bridezillas (and in some cases, groomzillas!) start raising their ugly heads.

When you find a big row starting to brew, take a deep breath. Remind yourself that whilst the wedding is an important event, what is more important is the marriage ahead and the new journey you both will embark on. That will certainly put your disagreements and priorities into perspective!

err... so, what do i do now?? :O LOL... help...