sympathy with the person... :P

sometimes the person had a bad history of growing up...

or maybe, the surrounding and environment

or perhaps, the bringing up... (note to self, be a good parent!) otherwise, nanti jadi macam dia... bila dah besor menyusahkan ramai orang... menggelabah... 

kesian.... kasihani lah dia... family dia for having dia in the family :P 

note: ni bukan tentang dhia ye... :P hahahaha :D