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what's going on?

shucksss... something is wrong with my blog's template. i dont know why but all the dates are gone!? so how?? i like this template but with no date, it doesn't look nice... :( i am so tired now.. but i want my blog look back...!!

my first try

After all this blocking shite happening at the office, I am looking for other alternative to continue blogging. Don’t they know that now is the era of blogging? People do this to express their feelings. Not to waste time (although there people who are really stupyd to waste their time and not do their work to blog!!). Like now… I am already here at the office like weeeeeeeeeeeeeee early in the morning i.e. as early as 700am… what else would I do (other than starting work)??? Blogging laa… but let’s just try this for a while okay…

A lil note from
Ein (mobile)

good try joey!

hahaha :D here he comes... back from school, while i was watching the 630pm drama... ssshhh... hey.. this is the only time that i can watch it when.. ehh.. if kaiser has his evening training at the gym. that is the only time i can watch malay drama. why?? because... he does not allow me to watch it... why? :D because.. he said, malay drama is too sad.. too much cryings.. hahhaah :D he does have a point there.. but maybe since i have started watching, might as well i continue. missed a few episodes already anyway. the maid cum the employer's son's wife (secretly) has delivered their baby.. ohh they got married secretly too... duuhh.. typical man with no balls!! blah.. blah.. blah... it is on tv3 by the way. errmmphh... anyway...

joey: ma...
me: yep...
joey: maaa..
me: yes... what... wait... lemme watch this drama first
joey: but maa.. i wanna talk to you..
me: joey.. when you watch cartoon, i dont disturb you.. so pls... dont disturb me.. this is the only time i can watch drama…


i am now seated at my workstation in the office - so much in pain.. with my hot water bottle on my tummy. my head is spinning... aauuucchhh.. hellpp... :( :( i wanna go home.

erkk... waacttoicch..

the day when i wanna be home!!! yeup... today is the day... i so wanna be home. i dont wanna be at the office. tired of fb already. i dont know what to do. damas was a boring place all of a sudden. did not enjoy my food. cannot seem to enjoy food anymore. has my tummy shrunk? just cannot entertain my self with work.BUT i am happy that my boss is happy with my own design for the company. woowweee... some achievement huh... ;)me sleepy coz gotta wake up very early to send my darling daughter to school. actually by 3am i woke up every hour coz i was afraid that i would wake up late.
i am feeling not nice due to a not nice conversation last night. i think that is why i am feeling like now. it is gonna be a very short week this week. anyway, friday is off day... yeyeyyeyeyeyey...i dont like memey... hehehe :D yeahh just gotta write it here lah.. hey its my right what.. i dont like her. :Pi miss kaiser, yes i do... shuckksss... dusyyummm... err why aahh??i do not like people asking me about…

hows ur weekend?

i had a great weekend.. as usual. started off early in the morning with joey's soccer practice. and yey... i got my breakfast in pelita... finally!! but somehow.. it doesnt taste that nice ... why ahh?? it still tastes a bit lemak la but not thattt really special suddenly. hmmm... and the conversation that i had with WS was how do i say it... educational :)

anyway... we, 4 of us just finished playing tennis and basketball. i have not played netball for many months and this year i just dont have the mood to play anymore. getting bored maybe. but hey.. i can still shoot well with basketball just now. then i went to the tennis court to see joelis playing tennis with kaiser.

lisa with my sunglasses on, namely 'ms drama queen'... and also known as ms whiner.. played with joey.. and he was good for a first timer (with his new tennis racket) it was fun la..

and owhhh... we went to see the new house yesterday with my mom and sister.. guess what, the owner took out the airconds, and…

2010 resolution

be more organized at work. home so far so good - can be better, but so far so good ;)there should not be more than 10 pieces of each types of clothing in my wardrobe.. errkk the toughest one i guess.. be calmer as a customer - bahana too long in customer service line, i have become a very difficult customer myself.take joelis out for a holiday out of malaysia. make lots of self reflection moments and muhasabah diri. do more than last year on my xango business!! yesss.... share lots more with the public, with my friends.
hemmmm since when do i even thought of a resolution?? 

bit and pieces of a fruitful conversation

i dont know how to summarize what we had yesterday at my parents' house. it was a fruitful conversation between kaiser and N3. honestly if it was me having that conversation, we could have ended with an argument. but N3 handled the situation very well though i hope N3 will learn more on her part (saving my part :P... hehehe ) to help me answer to most of kaiser's doubt in islam. from the conversation, we also noted that kaiser has been misjudging the religion due to his lacking of understanding of the religion himself. but alhamdulillah, N3 did a great job explaining to him - and i did add a lil bit to support what N3 said. may this kind of conversation continues.... and Allah swt to give him the light of truth. insyaAllah

personally, i was and still sad with the things that is happening in malaysia. with the people of different beliefs hurting each other with stupyd actions. with the crazy bombing at the churches - with the displaying of cow head at temples - with the placing…

choose 1 only

as i was walking out from joelis' music class yesterday, lisa remembered the joke during one of the birthday party. it was indeed really funny.. LOL... and all these because we saw cha-cha the clown at the lobby of the mall.

cha-cha: okay now i give you 3 questions.
girl: *nods...*
cha-cha: question 1, would you marry me? question 2,  can i marry you? question 3, can we get married?
girl: *gulp*

there goes another weekend

saturday morning: we had breakfast at the mamak restaurant with my parents and sisters. kaiser went to play badminton with francesca peters. so after breakfast we thought of looking for crocs at the pasar tani. err no i dont really like crocs. but because now they came up with lots of colorful crocs.. i kinda think they'd look nice on joelis. anyway... mission abort coz they didnt have joey's size and lisa doesnt like it. so in the end, we tagged along with my mom at the pasar tani and helped her with her stuffs that she bought. 

 baik si joelis tolong nenek... 

petang... shopping at the mall pulak...

sunday morning: it seems so fast ending. early in the morning was soccer practice. i really enjoyed watching the boys playing. they looked so cute. :) though i dont understand soccer that much.. i still enjoy watching them play :) gotta upload the pics in the ofc later coz my bluetooth does not seem to work these days... just love watching joey enjoying himself playing soccer. and …


aku tak tahu kalau korang boleh sebut perkataan kat atas tu tapi itu lah yang aku rasa sekarang. gosh... it sounded weird that i am writing this in bahasa. kadang2 kalau aku marah aku prefer tulis or cakap in english tapi kali ni aku kena tulis dalam bahasa coz aku tahu mamat siot tu baca gak blog aku. sebenarnya aku bengang dengan dia dah lama. and aku baik dengan dia pun pakal coz dia kawan rapat laki aku. tapi alhamdulillah perangai depa jauh berbeza. mamat tu memang kurang ajar and suka menjatuhkan air muka orang di khalayak ramai. aku rasa kalau dia kutuk laki aku depan orang dah banyak kali... tapi laki aku diam jer... sabar jer... tapi bini dia ni dah tak tahan. iiegghhh memang aku nak mencarut je dengan mamat cilaka tuh. tapi coz mengingatkan jugak time laki aku susah dulu dia gak yang tolong, so aku sabar kan gak lah.

tapi insiden minggu lepas memang aku dah tak leh sabar. dulu dah la dia memang biadap ajak laki aku keluar malam. aku tak kisah kalau laki aku nak keluar tapi ma…

why la You give me this challenge?

:( we are moving to a new place in a month. we really like the place - joelis will have better, big rooms for themselves. and kaiser will have his own office at home. the maid will have a room for her ironing and lisa's room wont be a mess anymore.. [ sorry lisa for messing up your room for the past few months but i dont have a choice :( ] and kaiser and i will have our own 2 wardrobe for our clothes... we, means kaiser and i. the moment we stepped into the house - we smiled inside :) :) we could feel it... we both felt that 'yesss!! this is what we wanna call home' joelis have not seen inside the house yet. but they have seen from outside and they like it. well, they like it because it is nearby their close friend's house :P well anyway... this week we've seen 2 houses that we like earlier put up 'for rent' goshh.. the temptation is so strong. we've paid deposit... :( :( later i will be going to another house that we like.. will put up pic soon okay...…

maths??? what is that?

i am having this new challenge at home. errr... joelis have been asking me about their homework. why do i say its new? coz, i can say that only 5% that i helped them with their school homework. usually they will settle it with 'other teachers' at my parents' place. huuuwaaa.... the other day, joey asked me about division.. and i was like... err.. huh... when was the last time i left school huh? and ermm.. gossh.. but i tell you.. joey is more cekap mannn... i was impressed.. and last night, lisa asked me about 'bodmas' ?? what the h&^%... hee hee hee :D i know i have heard that somewhere... geee :P

good customer service :)

thumbs up for P1WiMax. i made a call about their service last week. i was furious coz they could not resolve my problem when internet connection is very important for kaiser at home. a day after that, the connection was okay again. alhamdulillah. and yesterday i received an email from P1's customer service about the report that i made. so, i just inform them that connection is fine and i needed additional info as we will me moving to another area. and this morning, i got a call from P1's customer service informing me that they have coverage there. :) :) i am smiling to my ears... and he told me to put the broadband box towards their what do they call it... 'pencawang'? :) whatever it is, it was a good experience talking to him and yeahh... great customer service P1!

right man for the right woman?

i am having migraine right now. i think i have too much things in my head... wait... not think.. i know i have too much things in my head. errr.. mostly about work. i think 60% work and 40% home :) well anyway... i should be able to settle things soon. i know i will, i just need to FOCUS!!!! shucksss... and by the office blocking blogger, it is not helping me to reduce my stress! hahaha LOL... excuses.. excuses..

anyway, last night i had a good time watching the movie 'Hitch' with kaiser. actually before that i watched oprah and she was talking about the same topic... something about sex appeal - attraction of women and men - relationship etc... goshhh how to summarize? have lots of things to gather.. and looking at current situation, women's choice of men changes from physical to financial. look at the line of men below...the most high ranking man may not achieve a high rank anymore once their income is make known to women. this is based on the survey done with a few women…

lost child - 7th jan 2010

oowhh gosh... this is frightening. please dear readers... do forward this info to as many as you can...!! i received this email in my inbox this morning.

Dear All,

At 2pm of 7 Jan 2010 , my colleague received a phone call from her nursery that they have lost her daughter, aged 8, Malay at Sri Damansara area. Her name is Nurul Lyana. Nurul was out to buy ice-cream together with another little girl at around 12pm , but didn't go back to her nursery after that. As told by the other girl, an unknown makcik brought Nurul to see puppy cat.

Please forward this to as many as you could, we need to save her!!!  Please help. If you have any information, please call me at 012-3877510 or Esther at 012-660 6052.

Huang Lee Meng

ein says: dear parents (reminding myself too), if you read this, please educate your children:
NOT to go out without an adult with them. NEVER follow any stranger, be it a makcik or a pakcik...whoever.. NEVER follow.dear children, if you read this, please rem…


encountered a few alamaksss today lah...

just when i was dreaming from office that when i get home the house will be cleaner... the maid agency customer service screwed up... they did not set the appointment for my maid to come today.. darn... now i have to wait another day! shucckks... poor kaiser, he has got to be around tomorrow again at the time the maid arrive.

the weighing machine doesn't lie? really? if it is so, why is it that the calculation that i made over the internet, it says differently? (still in denial) hehhehe :D i woke up from bed this morning, straight away proceed to kaiser's weighing machine. it says that my fat is 28%!!! omg!! that is the highest so far... darn!!! well, i know i have been cheating in my food in-take.. errkkss...gullppss...  but this is what i did on the internet just now.

my gurl seems to be enjoying her current school now... errkkss... do i really want her to be in the boarding school? well, if it is for the best, for her education, then …


looking back at yesterdays activity...

800am - 1000am       soccer practice
11.00am - 12.15pm   gym
12.30pm - 1.30pm     music class
1.45pm                           lunch
2.15pm                           my parents' house
2.30pm                           home - rest
3.00pm                           klcc
5.30pm                           my parents' house
6.00pm                           home - rest
                                            groceries shopping
8.00pm                           cooked dinner
8.45pm                           dinner
9.00pm                            laundry time
                                            fold clothes with lisa and iron
10.45pm                          done with chores

that was when i said to myself... how nice if i have a live-in maid.. but then again, kaiser is not the type who likes strangers in the house.. so.. terima aja lah... currently we pay for the maid at my parents' house coz she takes care of joelis & their meal…

another weekend gone

it was much easier when joey has prepared everything last night for his soccer practise.. err.. now do i say soccer or football? they are just the same right? :P whatever lah... breakfast was different today. instead if our usual roti kosong at pelita.. we went to nasi lemak tanglin instead. the queue was 10 minutes .. or perhaps 15 minutes long. i dont remember the last time i had nasi lemak for breakfast.. and nasi lemak tanglin did not taste thattttt nice this morning... hmm why ahh? maybe i had roti kosong planned in my head.. maybe.. maybe.. lah.

had an sms from kaiser, informing that he's free if i wanna go for my gym earlier.. yeupp.. better earlier, so that after music class we are more free to do other stuffs. so.. by the time we got home, around 1040am, i prepared bread and egg for joey's snacks.. off we went for my gym. we arrived around 1110am. then.. finished at 12.10noon - took shower and sent joelis for music class by 1230noon. we had a good lunch... ayam penyet.…


this is what happen when i want to write a lot but have no idea how to start :)

nice things: went for my gym session in the morning. prepared breakfast for joelis. went to the office, out shopping for joelis - school stuff. cook dinner - kaiser & joelis enjoyed dinner that i cooked. well actually i just bought salad, cooked chicken masak merah & lisa cooked rice. yeupp... you read this right, my 12 year old daugther can cook already.. ;) she can fry eggs, boil sausages, maggi mee.. hehee :D she's growing up :) earlier, i didn't know if kaiser would like it since he is on a strict diet - hence the salad that i bought. in the end, i ate the salad.. and he bantai the chicken and rice :D after seeing them finished eating dinner, i dont feel that tired preparing it :)

silly: sprayed ridsect at the cupboard where i keep all my glasses.. so, the glasses smell of ridsect.. heheh :D well there were too many ants!

enjoyed: my weekly dance & bonding session with kaiser.. and i …

Bloody Agents

i am so pissed off with the property agent now. somebody so called 'datin' is staying at the guesthouse. and she has not signed the agreement. no doubt all fees are paid, but without the agreement signed, how can i be sure that the monthly rental will be paid accordingly? and the agent keep on saying that she will take care of it and don't worry. WTFart... of course i need to have the agreement, i own the guesthouse... bloody hell!!

just finished talking to the agent saying, 'i dont care of she / he is a datok or a datin, tan sri or the perdana menteri! i want the agreement to be signed!'

the call...

... that woke me up... nope, not from my sleep. but from my busyness at the office. i am not complaining, just sharing coz to be honest, i love this busyness that i am facing right now. and to be honest, i dont feel like going home now coz i have lots of things to settle... but, i need to go home :D heh heh :D confused? nothing to be confused about.

kaiser just called me just when i was typing an email for a customer who asked me out for lunch. i was apologizing to the customer... and when i got kaiser's call, my eyes was shocked to look at the time! 600pm already??!! mammamiaaa... he was just cooking his usual bread and eggs and he thought of making extra for me.. how shhwweettt... i told him, its okay, i will have dinner later with joelis after prayer..

phew.... i better be get going home... will continue work tomorrow :) and owwhh i receive another email today... and i will share with you later later okay.. :)

p/s: if you guys wonder when did i have time to post those many postin…

be patient

last but not least.... be patient :)

This is a true story which happened in the States. A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy's hands into pulp as punishment. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital.

Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy's hands. When the boy woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, 'Daddy, I'm sorry about your truck.' Then he asked, 'but when are my fingers going to grow back?' The father went home & committed suicide.

Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or u wish to take revenge. Think first before u lose your patience with someone u love. Trucks can be repaired.. Broken bones…

personal perception

Different people have different perception. One man's meat could be another man's poison. A couple bought a donkey from the market. On the way home, a boy commented, 'Very stupid. Why neither of them ride on the donkey? 'Upon hearing that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey. He walked besides them. Later, an old man saw it and commented, 'The husband is the head of family. How can the wife ride on the donkey while the husband is on foot?' Hearing this, the wife quickly got down and let the husband ride on the donkey.
Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, 'How can the man ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman.'

The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey. Then, they met a young man. He commented, 'Poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you.' Hearing that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it o…

right speech

There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that 'A speech will either prosper or ruin a nation.' Many relationships break off because of wrong speech. When a couple is too close with each other,we always forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt the other party.

A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site. A worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted,'Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date in the secondary school.' On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her, 'Luckily you married me. Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction worker.' She answered,'You should appreciate that you married me. Other wise, he will be the millionaire and not you.'

Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship. It's like a broken egg - cannot be reversed.

no overpowering

Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another,or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that 'It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character.'

It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness.

It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations..

creating perfect relationship?

another part of the email i received :)

A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, SDU, and requested 'I am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one.' The SDU officer said, 'Your requirements, please.' 'Oh, good looking, polite, humorous , sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing. Willing to accompany me the whole day at home during my leisure hour, if I don't go out. Telling me interesting stories when I need companion for conversation and be silent when I want to rest.' The officer listened carefully and replied, 'I understand you need television.'
There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband,because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of l…

no pointing fingers


A man asked his father-in-law, 'Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?'

The father-in-law answered in a smile, 'Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than you.'

We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves.

If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too.

i believe in beautiful things :)

why am i saying these? coz i had a crappy moment with my P1Wimax last night at home... i ran out of patience with the service and i had my anger out at their customer service person. i am sorry 'hari'... you just need to learn not to say 'i dont know' to a customer - coz it really pisses them off. :/ anyway... this morning before i left for work, the modem works fine...WTFart.... :P

and these are for you dear readers... i got this in my inbox today, and i am so in a hurry to share this with all of you... i learn through experience about my own relationship... and by reading these strenghten my knowledge more :) read on... i shall break it into different parts, okay ;)

TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation. A telephone operator told me that one day she received a phone call. Sh…

happy 2010!

it started very well... :) with kaiser cooked dinner and me had a massage just before that... and that was on the 1st... new year eve, we were at home. like the last few years of nye.. i am not that excited to celebrate ny out in the city.. prefer being home with my family. and this year, i forgot abt the fireworks.. had joelis slept early. and when the clock strucked 12, i was at the sofa with kaiser.. :) watching a movie. hmm felt better and comfy, really...

errmmm sorry people.. just not in the mood to blog la.. i hate my office right now.. omg... i just cant believe i am actually saying this.. just because they block today. darn...!! i just hate it... arrgghh.,. i am so angry... and right now my laptop buat perangai again... it is jumping up and down.. talking about the keyboard... arrghhh..

boring.. wanna go sleep.. and hug my huggy bear.. nite nite everyone..

happy birthday my dear joey

joey turned 10 today... i made an impromptu plan to have a picnic at lake garden to celebrate his birthday - without telling him who are coming. gathered 2 families of his friends i.e. adam & naqib, abg Z's family since we have not been hanging out together for quite sometime :) and joelis' daddy's new family... but of course they will not turn up...tak berani lagi kut... LOL...
i wrapped joey's presents few days before.. owh.. gotta change a bit.. :) kissed him early in the morning and asked him if he wants to open his presents early or wait till i come back from my gym.. and he said, after i came back... so... off i went for my gym session at 730am. got back.. gave his presents :) and we went for breakfast.

rushed for music class later... owwhh before that, there was an incident which i shall tell more in a different topic. we had a simple lunch... went home, perform prayer... pick up kaiser and off we went to lake garden. it rained a bit but it didnt stop us from…