was at the hideout with joelis few nights ago. was a bit upset with N3 with the messages that was sent/pass to my joelis. i appreciate her concern but i believe that it is okay to get hurt, although having to go through is terrible... especially me... when i can get very sick! but hey... i got up alright after that! i recovered, alhamdulillah. so, why the fuss? she shouldnt make my son think too much and worry about his mom. let the adult deal with the adults problems. i dont want my son to think to far - not at his age!